
Diann Sparks hadn’t planned on adopting, until one of her sisters asked her to attend an adoption class in a town 120 miles away from her home in Possum Trot, part of east Texas’ Shelby County. At the time, Sparks had one biological daughter and was a single parent working a full-time job at a chicken plant.
Faith and Resilience
Researcher Kathleen Belanger, professor emeritus at Stephen F. Austin State University, began studying the community shortly after the first adoptions. She found faith was behind most families’ decisions to adopt. She found that their faith may have contributed to lower stress when parents faced tough times. “The parents are told in preadoption training of the serious difficulties their child or children have and will continue to have after adoption, and yet they adopt anyway,” Belanger wrote. “These parents find their faith in God central to their lives and essential to their choice to adopt, also a belief which may be viewed as full of hope.” Randy was 4 years old when he moved in with Sparks in 1998 with his older brother, Joshua. Prior to coming into foster care, the boys were left by themselves for long stretches of time, their 8-year-old brother foraging from trash cans to feed them. Sparks adopted Randy in 1998 and another boy, Nino, in 1999. Joshua started staying over at the Martins’ house on weekends when Sparks wasn’t able to care for him. Sparks didn’t want to let Randy or Joshua go, but she couldn’t keep all three boys and care for Joshua’s needs. So Sparks kept Randy and Nino, and the Martins adopted Joshua. “It was challenging. It was hard sometimes,” she said. “Sometimes I feel like giving up. Sometimes I said, ‘Just come get ‘em, take ‘em back.’ But actually I had to sit down one day and I was reading through Randy’s chart — his file. I read so much stuff until I just closed the book . . . The things that he went through was really touching and I said, ‘This kid here don’t need to go into nobody else’s home.’” Terri was 9 years old when she came to the Martins from the neighboring town of Nacogdoches. CPS called Donna Martin to provide respite care with the intention of fostering and possibly adopting. Terri said her biological mom would beat her, force her to drink alcohol and smoke cigarettes. Her mom’s boyfriend beat her, raped her and burned her with cigarette butts. When her mom suffocated her 15-year-old sister to death and ended up in jail, Terri went into foster care. The Martins’ home was her 11th placement. “When we got the kids in, I kept reminding myself of why they came — because of the need,” Martin said. “And never looked at the problem or the issues or whatever they would have to face … This is the reason why you’re in the house — to rewrite your story.”
Race and Poverty in a Rural County
Belanger said what makes Possum Trot unique is the large number of black children adopted, especially considering that, according to the 2015 U.S. Census, 16.8 percent of its households lived below the poverty level. Black children are disproportionately represented in foster care nationwide. A Child Trends report indicated that 13.8 percent of the U.S. child population was black in 2015. For the same year, the federal Children’s Bureau reported that 24 percent of children in foster care were black. Though many of the Possum Trot families were lower income, all licensed families met the CPS mandate that foster and adoptive parents be financially stable and able to support each child without the monthly stipend. The adopted children interviewed for this story, like Terri Martin, said they didn’t feel the effects of poverty in their home. “I feel like we never was hungry, we never went without clothes on our back,” she said. “Whatever they couldn’t afford, Momma and Daddy made sure we still had. They made up for what the state didn’t send in.” Ruth McRoy, researcher and lecturer at Boston College School of Social Work, said the close-knit rural community helped alleviate some of the financial, physical and emotional burden. “These are the things that are characteristic more of rural communities than in urban communities,” she said. “If one family’s having a challenge, another family will often say ‘Send your children over here for a few days while you get some rest.’ It’s just providing that kind of respite and support for one another.”
Support From Within and Without
In 2000, the community started getting media attention. People Magazine wrote an article. CBN’s Orphan’s Promise provided food, after-school tutoring and computers. Oprah donated Christmas presents. Fox’s “Renovate My Family” built the Pineywood Outreach Center with a full-sized basketball court, a library, a playroom and a classroom.
A Best-Kept Secret
Both Belanger and McRoy said Bennett Chapel and Possum Trot should be seen as a model for other rural, faith-based communities. “We think, ‘There’s not resources out in rural America, and these kids have very high needs, and so you have to put them where these resources are,’” Belanger said. “Well, if you’ve got a really, really loving family, sometimes that’s better than all the resources.” Belanger says the adoptions have opened up the possibility of adoption in other poor, rural communities. “They inspired other people to adopt and to think about adoptions and to realize that you don’t have to be wealthy,” Belanger said. To date, other faith-based communities across the U.S. have adopted children in small numbers, like what Belanger has seen in South Carolina and Louisiana. Although some of those were inspired by the Possum Trot adoptions, McRoy said it’s still not a well-known story. “I would still say that in a lot of areas this is kind of a best-kept secret,” McRoy said. “We need to know more about how this could be replicated in other communities.”
Where Are They Today?
W.C. Martin said the community center is having a hard time paying the utility bills to keep classes going. Some of the parents who adopted have died, others have left the church. Bennett Chapel sees 30-60 families any given Sunday, and it — and faith — continue to serve as a rich part of the community. Some of the children still live in Possum Trot. Others have moved away, across Texas and Louisiana.
The Sparks
As the kids grew older and started wanting to do after-school activities, Sparks’ biological daughter, Shanta, would help drive the kids to school and care for them while Diann worked to provide for her family. Nino, 24, is a supervisor at a store in La Grange, near Austin, and lives with his girlfriend and his daughter. Randy is 22 and works for a company that rents out commercial building equipment and lives close to Nino.
The Martins
Donna and W.C. Martin continue to receive awards for their work in the community. They live in nearby Center, Texas. The Martins adopted a total of four children: Joshua, Terri, Tyler and Mercedes. They have two older biological children.
Beth Cortez-Neavel is a freelance journalist and editor based in Austin, Texas. Her writing focuses on child welfare and mental health.
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